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Regardless of whether or not you succeeded in the past a thousand times, whether odnosiłeś extraordinary success, has only one thing - what you do today. Incredible is the fact that we are not under the influence of our past and we can create our future by taking advantage of today. In fact, you have the same chances to pick up the beautiful girl like me or any other man, and to achieve this you only need these opportunities exploited. But few people are able to use their life chances. Only a handful of people are aware that every day we get a wonderful gift - a new day separate from our past that we can use according to our will. Most people limit their success because they feel bound by his past. They are not able to approach the girl who was extremely exciting for them, because once in the past tried this, and once or twice they failed. However, tell me what the hell has that to do with the failure of a few years, with the new situation? Is it that once someone is a girl refused to have any impact on his new acquaintances? Objectively speaking, is not, however, people with such limiting beliefs are in fact limited, not by his past, but by their minds. By the fact that they look at a brand new situation through the prism of his old experience, they deprive themselves of the motivation for action and are confident that will fail. You know that it is not past their limits, but their own thoughts, beliefs and memories are perceived through the prism of his life. I agree with them that there are experiences that can limit us somewhat. Let's say that once tried to pass at where you extremely anxious, and she treated you as the air. Although the other thing, in fact, the event has no impact on how you go with another girl, but can you discourage it attempts to pickup. What should you do in this situation? Of course, wisest solution would be to change their memories. In fact, you will not alter their memories in themselves, only their emotional attitude to them so that the memory of a situation that you ever "dołowała" instead of invoking the restrictive feeling was emotionally neutral or even funny. How can this be achieved? Just that it would use neurolinguistic programming technique, called the technique this pattern. | | |